When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it’s normal to feel uncertain about what to do next, especially when it comes to whether or not to tell your partner. You may be weighing your options privately and wondering how to handle a difficult conversation.
At New Hope Center, we provide free and confidential services to help you navigate this time. Our mentors are here to listen, answer your questions, and walk alongside you as you consider your next steps. Schedule an appointment today to get connected.
Your Choice and Your Voice
This is your pregnancy, and legally, you are the one who has the right to make decisions about it. However, relationships, especially those you value, can benefit from honesty and open communication.
If you and your partner share a healthy, respectful relationship and plan to stay together, it’s often best to include him in your decision-making process. Transparency can strengthen trust and help you both face this situation as a team.
At the same time, it’s essential to prioritize your safety and emotional well-being. If you have any concerns about your partner’s reaction or if you’ve experienced any form of abuse, your safety is the priority. You can reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or call 911 in an emergency.
How to Talk to Your Partner
If you’ve decided to share the news with your partner, preparation can make the conversation feel more manageable.
- Think about what you want to say. You may share your thoughts about the pregnancy, any concerns you have, or what kind of support you need.
- Choose a calm, private place. Select a location where you can both speak openly without interruptions.
- Be honest, but gentle. Your emotions are valid, and your partner may need time to process.
- Listen, too. They may have strong feelings, but listening to one another can help both of you move forward respectfully.
Even if you don’t see eye to eye, being open allows you both to understand each other’s perspectives. A healthy relationship is built on open and effective communication, even when discussing difficult topics.
Understanding the Laws in Kentucky
Before making any pregnancy decision, it’s essential to understand the current abortion laws in Kentucky.
As of now, abortion is prohibited mainly in Kentucky except in cases where the mother’s life is at risk. This means that abortion pills or procedures are not legally available in the state.
Knowing the law is an essential part of protecting yourself and understanding what options are available to you. Additionally, it’s crucial to know that no one has the legal right to force you to choose abortion.
Our client mentors can walk you through current state laws and discuss your options so you can make informed, confident choices.
Take the Next Step
You deserve support, understanding, and accurate information as you navigate your pregnancy. Whether you decide to talk to your partner now or need help preparing for that conversation, New Hope Center is here for you.
Schedule your free, confidential appointment today to speak with a caring mentor and take your next step toward confidence and peace of mind.
New Hope Center does not provide or refer for abortions.
All information in this blog is accurate at the time of writing.
